To be blunt: I don't like Divas!
Women of today and those coming up within the ranks of womenhood have been brainwashed into thinking that being strong is being without compromise. I know that the mothers of these women either picked unworthy men or was in love with someone who wasn't mature enough to handle being in a family who decided to abandon the home. The latter you can show support to, but the first group not so much.
Ever since these little girls could first talk, the majority of them have always been told that "men aren't sh*t" or "can't lead" or "aren't on point". Many of them truly see us as little boys, even those of us who are on the verge or do have their sh*t together. And whats sad is that you have R&B songs, Pop songs, and Hip-Hop records that constantly scream "get a baller girl!" or "don't trust no man" or something to that accord, which only makes things even worse because now you have a catchy tune that drills these messages into their minds with Beyonce as the ring leader. And whats worse, if they do meet someone who is a get right man, then he's too weak or acts too nerdy or is too demanding *Sigh*.
To the women who know not to travel this lonely path, I thank you for being you. I thank you for knowing to love yourself before going out to love someone else. I thank you for understanding that the union of two people to form one entity comes with understanding, love, patients and most of all the ability to communicate with one another. Thank you for realizing that love and sex are two different things. Thank you for understanding that a marriage isn't a way to make a quick buck. Thank you for being friends to those of us that need an extra boost of encouragement. Thank you for knowing that it isn't all about you, and checking or leaving the men who think it is all about them. Thank you for knowing, even if a man isn't rich, but is a great and hard working person that he must have final say in what decisions are best for the family. Thank you for doing more listening than talking, and thank you for knowing what a man expects from a woman and not from a slave driving, trash talking b*tch on wheels that wouldn't know how to keep a man if they were given the instruction manual to do so.
Men and women must find even ground so we can walk together in prosperity, and not in disparity. Men need to stop acting like b*tches and handle your business, while women must stop being so "manish" or sinful, or else we will have more future generations of people sleeping around thinking that its just the way to be. The terms "baby daddy" & "baby mama" may one day replace "husband" & "wife" if we aren't careful. Then what will the kids coming after you will think? Exactly my point!
Down with punk a** men, and to the diva for they only care about themselves until they get too old, too fat or too busted to be marriage material.
Are you a diva? If so, STOP!
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